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"Finding a Soul Mate Love After a Breakup"
By Susie and Otto Collins
Very often, when two people separate for any
reason
and one or both of them feel like their hearts are broken,
they lose hope that they will ever find love again.
We're here to say that a deep soul mate
connection and
love is possible, even if you've had a broken heart in the
past.
If you haven't seen the movie "Cold
Mountain" yet, we
recommend that you go see it and here's
why...
Although parts of the movie are painful,
violent and difficult
to watch, we think that it holds a wonderful
lesson about
relationships that we'd like to share with
you.
Woven within the film (and the book by
Charles Frazier) is
a beautiful story of two people who discover
that they have
a deep connection and are then separated for
several years.
Although they are separated and tempted by
various
people, situations and events, they remain
true to their
desire for a deep connected relationship with
the other
and aren't willing to settle for anything
less.
Watching this movie reminded us of what our
connection
felt like from the moment we got together and
still feels
like today.
What we had was an instantly recognizable
feeling of love
and connection that we continue to nurture on
a moment
by moment and day-by-day basis to keep that
connection
alive.
Are we special and among the fortunate few
who can
have this deep connection with a partner?
We don't think so. We think it is available
to anyone
who has the desire and intention to create a
deep,
loving relationship and are willing to do the
things
necessary to keep it alive and healthy. Even
though
you may have had to go through a painful breakup
or divorce in the past, it is possible to find love again.
In "Cold Mountain," once the two lead
characters had a
taste of something truly special that they
couldn't explain,
no matter how many times and how they were
tempted,
they weren't willing to settle for an
"average" or superficial
relationship.
It's one of the few films we've ever seen
where the main male
character, Inman, was only interested in a
loving, connected
relationship and not superficial sex. It
certainly is a radical
departure to how most men are portrayed in
films.
So what does all of this mean to you in your
life and what
can you use to make your life and
relationships better?
We think that it's a good reminder for you to
take a look at
what kind of relationships you really want in
your life and
what you are willing and not willing to
settle for. It's also
a good reminder that this can be available for each of us.
You may be in a committed, loving
relationship that's good
but you want it to be even better. Finding
ways to spend
more time together or to communicate better
are examples
of ways that you might focus on to become
even closer.
You might be in a committed relationship
where there is
love but you seem to be going in two
different directions
and the connection just isn't there. Ask
yourself (and if
possible your partner) if you want a closer
relationship.
If you do, look for what is blocking your
connection
and agree on some ways that would bring the
two of you
closer.
You may not be in a soul mate relationship
right now but
want to be. If so, ask yourself if a soul
mate relationship
is really what you want at this time in your
life. If it is, then
ask yourself what are the blocks within you
that are preventing
this from happening. Simply by becoming
aware of what's
blocking you from having what you want will
start you on your
way to having it.
Whether it's in a relationship you are in now
or one that
you want to be in -- as a friend of Otto's
once told him --
Always go for the highest and go for the
best.
If you go for the highest and go for the
best, we think you'll
find that your relationships will be happier,
more fulfilling and
bring you more joy than you ever thought
possible.
Susie and Otto Collins
P.O. Box 14544
Columbus, Ohio 43214
614-459-8121
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